Well, every 1/8 buggy I know of (this is the buggy forum), has a rear exaust engine. On the rear exhaust port that the manifold connects to, there's a silicone seal. The seal wears out over time due to vibration. The metal to metal contact and constant vibration has a tendency to chew threw it over time. As well as bad wrecks that impact your exaust pipe.
As for the shim, all engines that I know have have a brass shim that seals the engine cooling head to the block. The shim is made out of brass (or copper, can't remember which), which is relatively soft, to seal any minescule imperfections in either the base of the head, or the top of the piston sleeve. Also, the shim or shims are a way to change the engines compression. For higher nitro fuels (25% on up) most engines require an extra head shim to compensate for the extra bang that the nitro causes.
Here's a pic of a comparison of a stock 2.5 head and an ACNCM aftermarket head that I sold. The head on the left has a brass shim on it, whereas the head on the right does not. The only reason it doesn't is due to the fact that I never received one with the head. If I were to use the head, I would have needed to take the shim off the head on the left, or buy an extra one.
As for the exhaust gasket, I don't have a pic anywhere to give you an example.
Hope this clears it up a little for you.