Yea don't want to break parts. Thanks for the info. To start out would that esc work with the current motor and receiver just to see if he's gonna stay interested then upgrade the other parts. The current esc works just looks really worn. And with the mechanical moving parts I feel it probably isn't very reliable. I guess I'm asking could I start with the new esc and still be able to run it and replace the other parts o e at a time.
You could, but, as old as the motor is, once you replace the ESC, the motor may not last through a single battery. Brushed motors need maintenance, and if its been sitting for a long time, could have gotten moisture in it, or could have been wore out before it was put aside. As for the radio, as long as it still controls the car, you can use it, but, being that its an old AM system, is way more susceptible to interference, which could cause anything from intermittent running, to the car outright taking off. Newer radios and receivers also have fail safe systems, so that if the car gets out of range, it will just roll to a stop, but, with that older AM system, it wont have that feature. Most of the time the fail-safe isnt important, but, in the case of AM, could be if the car gets far enough away and then gets a signal from another source. The new 2.4GHZ stuff makes it nearly impossible for interference. The real problem with the car is its age. You dont want to go overboard updating it, only to have it work once and break some part that is no longer available. Unfortunately, hobby grade RC stuff typically means money will be spent somewhere. My honest recommendation, especially if you arent sure if they will even continue to be interested, would be to get a cheap wal-mart car (you can get them for as little as $15, and as high as $100, sometimes a little more), and see how they are with that. The car you have could honestly become a major money pit (especially if it turnsout to need a bunch of upgrades), or, if parts arent available, could be a total loss. I'm not trying to dissuade you, just letting you know what you might be in for.