With a few exceptions, we avoid boys entirely because of the rampant and blatant bro culture misogyny in the RC hobby (at least in the flying world). With few exceptions, you'll never see us at an event or online posting videos.
I have three RC monster trucks but don't drive them, considering them only useful for delivering a brick of RDX somewhere. I actually prefer to stay in RC simulators instead of the real thing, as the simulators are far more fun, convenient, cheaper, and hassle free, unlike the actual hobby where you're always tearing up and having to fix your toys. Same stick movements without all the constant battery charging and repair work. I've probably got about $3,000 invested in RC quadcopter related hardware, most all of which collects dust. All the run time hours I put in the sim.
Girls also prefer to fly, and fly alone, instead of driving around in the dirt, though I do know some girls that do both, or left flying (because of the toxic culture) for driving around on the ground or indoors alone at home.
Girl Pilots (please don't ever hit on them, it's bad form, thank you):
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFg69hSTRqDsaUjHJlVlwbg
I only made an account here myself to make a post sharing my free sound pack for Open-TX transmitters a uear pr sp agp. I don't think folks use Open-TX much (yet) in the car/truck side of the hobby, but I shared anyway here when I annouce it in the RC flight forums.
You'll see me in the scene because I ran a highly modified for aerial combat FPS game server for 5 years which was the forerunner of FPV quadcopter sims today. My server was flooded with boys daily, so I've built up an immunity to toxic shoe box kid purile little skater boy culture. Not to say it still doesn't irk me, but back in the day I took great pleasure in slaughtering boys wholesale... inside a video game, that is. So, I coudln't enitrely hate you all, I mean, I needed... targets.
So yeah, the girl side of the RC world chooses to remain invisible. Some of us make guy sounding accounts so you'll neve suspect it. I order all my RC stuff online through fake guy accounts, so nobody is the wiser as to where I live.
Tons of girls in RC, but you'll never see us
Ask any guy in FPV quadcopters who is the most famous and they'll tell you this or that guy. Always. And then you point out the voice ont ehir radio, on all their radios, is a girl.. and they go, oh yeah! But that don't count....
"That don't count" sums it up as to how girls are treated. You could be the best G.D. aerobatic pilot in the world (I am, mainly because I predate all these FPV jokers by 10 years), and you are completely ignored. You could be one of the grandmothers of it all, and nobody knows your name or cares to acknowledge your contribution. Because you're a girl, you don't count. It's just par for the course. You take it in stride, and content yourself with being 10x better than the best boy pilot/driver out there. If they say they've never heard of you and talk trash, you just crush them.
I'd actually like to get a nitro helicopter, but... from what I understand, a nitro helicotper is a hundered different parts all trying to spontageously blow itself apart, so... yeah... probably will stay in my RC sims in the kitchen... you know, near that frige and microwave and air conditioner.
I actually have two of the biggest glow plug looking engines you've ever seen, two N.O.S. Chotia 460B 15hp ultralight aircraft single cylinder engines. The cylinder barrel is actually off a Volkswagen Beetle if that gives you a sense of scale. So I could actually do the Crocodile Dundee you call that a knife thingee, where if a guy pulled out their out your biggest RC eninge, I could say... you call that an eninge... this... is an engine! Plunk on the table. If I could plunk it, it's actually quite a lift...
choppergirl
http://sp.air-war.org/