Most cars are well supported after the fact, and like my TLR 4.0, most of the 'discontinued" parts have a direct replacement from the new 5.0 so they're still available, just the actual part number changes. Associated supports vehicles for years after and the aftermarket support is huge so it's a great choice to go with. Facebook has a lot of rc club and marketplace listings for RC stuff. In fact I got my own buggy as a roller on facebook marketplace.
Only reason I would say start with a 13.5 spec class is to get used to driving, then step up to mod or you may be off the track more than on it for a while.

Plus the gap between you and the top drivers will be mainly driving skill and not what's being run in the cars themselves.
Some good servo brands, specifically for racing are Protek, Savox, Hi-tec, and Associated has their own electronics brand called Reedy as well which are pretty good.
Most common ESCs are Tekin (I have one of the Tekin R3 in my own car and liking it a lot so far), SMC has great electronics, and Hobbywing (but stay way from their low end stuff). Again there's a lot of other companies but those being the most common, it'll be easy for you to get help setting them up if need be and lots of people at the track will have a program card on hand if needed.
Motors, there's a ton of great companies. Most also offer esc/motor combos that work well together.
Soldering will require you to connect wires to the motor and in some cases the ESC, but that depends on what you get. Most of the Hobbywings come pre-attached to the ESC and just require motor soldering. Tekins always require soldering the ESC as well. But all of them come with the required wires and stuff in the box so don't worry about having to get your own unless you want specific colors or something like that.
The Futaba 4Pv is a great radio and will last you well into your racing career. I was just suggesting lower models because I didn't know what your budget was like.
For tools, you'll want a set of hex drivers usually between 1.5-3.0mm as standard. MIP are the best out there but pricey. But the old RC adage is "buy cheap, buy twice"

I started out with these:
https://www.amazon.com/NEEWER®-Titanium-Nitride-Driver-Wrench/dp/B00CP2GGBI
Havent rounded out on me yet though!
You'll also need a decent set of nut drivers, usually between 4-8mm. Again MIP is the way to go but I have these and again, no issues so far:
https://www.amazon.com/Dynamite-Metric-Nut-Driver-Assortment/dp/B000BQ4XPQ
An electric nut driver or screwdriver can be a godsend but remember, ALWAYS finish tightening by hand or you're bound to start stripping things out.
I use this one as well as a lot of guys at my track:
https://www.amazon.com/HAMMERHEAD-Rechargeable-Screwdriver-Patented-Innovative/dp/B01CTMEBRE
And this set of bits for it:
https://www.ebay.com/itm/8-Piece-He...nk-impact-driver-drill-metric-mm/142905081022
Also you'll NEED a heat temp gun. temping your esc and motor is key to setting up your car properly, making sure nothing is going awry with your electronics, and that you're gearing appropriately.
Again. I use this one personally and no issues:
https://www.amazon.com/Etekcity-Lasergrip-774-Non-contact-Thermometer/dp/B00837ZGRY
Those are the "big ones" besides the general stuff like spares and whatnot. You'll want to have spare hardware in case something comes loose and you lose it or you strip it out, most common spare parts that break like shock towers and A-arms for sure, and wheels and tires appropriate for your track. They will wear out and you will need to replace them occasionally. You'll also probably want a few different sized pinion gears and a few spur gears to be able to setup your car to your track, or others you may find and go to in the future.
The biggest two things you need to know are:
1) SLOW IS FAST. Race the track, not the other racers at first and concentrate on consistent laps without needing a marshal to flip you

Also, never get mad at a marshal for being too slow or anything like that. You're the one that screwed up and flipped, not them.
2) Don't be shy about asking for help, specially if there are team drivers at your track. Part of their sponsorship is to promote the hobby and help newcomers. It's literally their JOB to help answer your questions and help out. Unless they are elitist pricks, the majority of them are happy to talk your ear off, offer tips, and share their setups with you. Plus most manufacturer website like Associated have all their top drivers' setups right online you can copy for your track type if need be.
I'm sure I'll post more as I think of them. I'm still kind of a new racer as well and trust me, I wish I had someone to tell me all of this when I started out too. but luckily I have two tracks I frequent, both with amazing people always willing to help out!