I got my car going today, so I was going to let you all know the deal, incase someone runs into the same problem. The .18 cv-rx (s) has a short shaft that has a larger diameter shaft. My .15 nitro star fly wheel would not fit on the shaft and it was not long enough to reach my gears.
Today I exchanged the motor for a .18 cv-rx the only difference of course is the (s), which stands for standard shaft. The new one without the (S) has the longer shaft that would reach my gears. Now came the suprise. Even though both the motors are .18 OS cv-rx's the motor with the longer shaft also has a smaller diameter shaft. I took my flywheel off my RS4 and it slides right on to the new motor with the longer shaft. Don't know why the short one is larger than the long shaft, but I don't care, because it works now. So let anyone know that is thinking about doing this swap, that they need to get the plain cv-rx not the cv-rx (s). I mounted it on my car tonight, so now I just have to go though the pain of waiting to see what it will do until I get it broken in. Thanks for all of your input!