Get a SIM !!!
A real heli pilot said, "Once a helicopter is one inch off the ground, it's in an extremely precarious situation."
I got a Century Falcon .46 a couple of years ago, and at the flying field I started learning the basic hover. My knees shook and my palms would sweat till I could hardly hold the radio. Don't EVER think that learning to fly a heli is as easy as a plane.
On my way home from the field I stopped by my LHS and bought Real Flight G2. Wow, it's wonderful. I'm a member of their forum. I spent 2 solid 10 hour days teaching myself how to hover and fly without wrecking. Weeks of daily practice, and then after perfecting the basics I worked on auto rotation "engine out" landings. I had hundreds of wrecks on G2, but they didn't cost a nickle and didn't cost any time in repairs. Fuel is also free on G2. Add the cost of fuel and repairs, and G2 pays for itself. Now I can hover without drifting, and auto rotations are my preferred landings.
Most of the helis in G2 are really "Twitchy" but if you can fly them, your real one will be easier to handle. Even the trainer heli is a pain to hover.
The only stock heli that's close to real is the Spritzer 4 stroke.
The G2 site has downloads that members submit of planes or helis that they have edited to perform differently than the stock versions.
I spent almost 100 hours editing a Jet Ranger to behave better than anything in the program, and as close as possible to the setup I have in my Falcon. Friends who have G2 have tried it and love it. I'll be sending it in to the download page soon. It's called Rotor Floater. I edited it to behave smoothly and gently in a hover, since all the heli complaints were from new flyers who couldn't control the stock helis. If you can control the heli in a smooth hover and NOT fight the sticks, you won't get as frustrated learning to fly.
With a plane at the field, and a good instructor, you can solo after your third tank. Not so with a heli, and not easy to get someone willing to spend so much time with you. You'll burn 2 gallons learning to hover before you can fly, and before you can fly you need to learn autorotation landings.
VERY expensive if you fall from the sky and don't know what to do.
I ABSOLUTELY recommend Real Flight G2 for learning or perfecting any R/C maneuver with a plane or heli.
You get used to stick movements so you don't have to give it a thought any more, and you learn about the switches on the radio also. There's also 'virtual instructor' who talks to you with a radio on screen so you can watch the sticks as he explains a maneuver.
You can also fly against other members on line.
Good luck...Check out their site and the forum.