well, it's been a while but I figured I'd update this just in case someone else out there ever wanted to do the same thing. I tried nail polish remover and it didn't seem to do anything unfortunately. Wet sanding definately get's it done the best (like 600 grit, before dyeing) but you just can't get your fingers in those itty bitty areas. I'm just too friggin anal to let that kinda stuff fly. So I figured I'd ride up to the local Michaels to see what kind of clears I could find. My not so LHS is 45 minutes away. Well, I found a pretty good product by DecoArt. It's called DuraClear and comes in Gloss or Satin. It's actually a polyurethane varnish but it's thin enough to blow through an airbrush with a medium tip and needle. It's flexible, weatherproof, and even wet or dry sandable. As you would expect it didn't quite give me the "flat" look but it's definately not glossy anymore. A good negotiation if you will. Plus, since I'm spraying after dying I dont run the chance of getting dye all over my fingers when handling (although I havn't had any problems with this happening anyway). I wish I had a digi cam or I'd post some gloss vs. satin pics.