Some Prenumptial advice needed....

[Monkey Wrench]

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Two words: HOLY poop!

 

[mrwill]

ummmm... wow that is amazing! (in a sick twisted way)

 

[digger]

Everyone has their own opinion and been some good advice on here...

My $.02....
Start out as best friends. Sex is an issue but you can get that anywhere. Don't get me wrong, you won't have it with anyone else....
You are going to spend the rest of your life with this one.

Both of you need your space. If she is crowding you, it won't work.
Same thing if you are crowding her.
You are married, because you love each other. Not because you are connected at the hip.

You won't change her...
She won't change you...




No recipe for the perfect marriage.
No happily ever after. Going to be rough spots.
Do the best ya can and try to remember why ya got married to start with.


Good luck bro.

 

[ImBroken]

Now if I could only get the rabbit thing down. That ended a year into the relationship.... how do you get it back? LOL

That's not good bro... Time to get some toys for the bedroom... Dont let em fool ya, they love the toys...
Good sex is key... lol

 

[godale03]

Well the sex is great when it happens..... We have both agreed that the sex is kinda boring and stagnate. It is not that we don't love each other or don't want to be with anyone else, but more like things in the bedroom don't change much and we don't seem to have the time. With a 4 year old he tends to dominate. Also she is 33 and I am 28, she is out of her prime, as I am as well. I guess the drive for her is gone, and mine is fading fast. Oh well, there is more to life and a great relationship then sex.

Tom

 

[robriguez]

From what I have read/heard, women start to get into their prime about 30-35 some late bloomers dont start till 35. So just cause shes 33 thats doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't have that little sex kitten still inside her waiting to come out and play again. I mean all women are different but from what I've heard men peak 18-20 women peak 30-35. I know "I" am certainly on the Decline in any case.

Well man, good luck to you. As much as this thread is helping me as well I've got to stay out of it for a while. Stressing too much over coordinating everything right now, and this is just giving me WAY to much to think about.

C-YA

 

[Monkey Wrench]

That's not good bro... Time to get some toys for the bedroom... Dont let em fool ya, they love the toys...
Good sex is key... lol

Fortunately, I live about 6 miles away from a Hustler Hollywood store! Now, keep in mind that I am married to "Mary the Mormon" now, but we still manage, not as often as we used to, but we still manage to make a stop or two a year into Larry Flynt's dildo emporium. Some pretty unique stuff in there.

Just as an example, think DIY dildo kit.

 

[SMaxxin]

Also she is 33 and I am 28, she is out of her prime, as I am as well.

Tom

I don't think she is passed her prime, my wife is 33 and I've been struggling for a while now. Sounds like your in a rut, don't be afraid/ashamed to tell each other exactly what you want. Find a baby sitter for the kid and get out of the bedroom and explore the rest of the house....And toy are very fun, maybe some role playing. Outside is also a great change, even if there is 99.9% chance that no one will catch you it's still better than hiding from the kid in the bedroom. Be playful, and music is a good thing.

Just as an example, think DIY dildo kit.

Now that would be awesome! Nothing like you and your wife making a copy of your sword LOL

 

[godale03]

Well I am sure alot of it has to do with the fact we are in a rut, but she is also very self consious about her weight. I don't know why I think she looks great, but she doesn't think so. It does not allow her to feel comfortable. I have tried to talk her into other parts of the house, but I have had no luck. I will keep trying though.

Tom

 

[digger]

Sex is great guys. I still look forward to the "hanging off the chandelier, monkey sex" but you can get that anywhere.
Tom is, if you pardon the expession, "buying the cow because the milk is good."

You are getting married because you enjoy being around each other and you are going to for the rest of your life.
Be open and honest with her.
Give each other some space.

Wish you the best of luck bro. Hope this is your last one.
Been with my 'ol lady for 17yrs. Been great, but I can't do the deal......

 

[godale03]

Sex is great guys. I still look forward to the "hanging off the chandelier, monkey sex" but you can get that anywhere.
Tom is, if you pardon the expession, "buying the cow because the milk is good."

You are getting married because you enjoy being around each other and you are going to for the rest of your life.
Be open and honest with her.
Give each other some space.

Wish you the best of luck bro. Hope this is your last one.
Been with my 'ol lady for 17yrs. Been great, but I can't do the deal......

Hey Dig,

Your are absolutely right. I never thought I was ever going to be ready to settle down and do the dead. Then she came along and changed my mind. Sure we may not be doing it to NIN Closer, but trust me before she came along I was having some fun. Digger is right about haning off the chandelier Monkey Sex... you can get that anywhere... and in my younger days a little poop talking would get you far.... damn sometimes I miss those days! LOL

All kidding aside though... I am marring my best friend... well my best friend without a mustache! I am sure I could have married a couple of the ladies I spent some real time with in the past, but until she came along I never had that feeling.

So I raise a beer to future!

Tom

 

[Revo Rancher]

Start slamming "it" in a drawer...

 

[godale03]

Start slamming "it" in a drawer...

Ouch!!! Woo... that sounds painful!

 

[Revo Rancher]

It'll keep you from using it and getting into trouble...

















J/K!

Good luck. And send honeymoon pics, too, will ya!