They all get hot enough to burn the crap out of you, unfortunately that part is normal. Do you have a temp gun, if you do what temps is it running at? If not the old water drop test will have to work...Put one drop of water on the top of the head. if it burns off in under two seconds you running hot. I haven't used this method in years and never tested it with a temp gun so I don't know how accurate it will be.
Also you can have one needle rich and one needle lean, this could cause the results your getting also.