Sad, Sad Day.....

[rocknbil]

Good for both of you, now you need to do one thing: teach this girl how to have fun. That life is NOT all work, that it's OK to take time out to just enjoy life. In doing so you'll find something you can enjoy together.

 

[whuggs1]

That girl tried to change me, and it took me four years to show her the door. Of course she started giving it to another man... so it made the decision very easy!

Tom

Been there and took me 6 years. It's hard when she was 95 lbs a cute as hell.


Comunication is a big role in a relationship and a must ! Sounds Like you are both on the right track !!

Good luck !!

 

[godale03]

Hey guys,

I guess our talk is working a bit. Yesterday my girlfriend asked me if I was going to go and race this weekend. My jaw about dropped. This is the first race of the year and I had told her about it many weeks ago. I was just shocked that she said it was ok to go, and that she brought it up! Maybe the talk worked? :shrug:

 

[JESSE G]

Woo Hooo thats awesome! I'm glad she is working with you congrats

 

[Plaidfish]

that is definately a good sign man..good luck

 

[Revo Rancher]

I gave her the out... and she didn't take it, said she wanted to work through it. I think we still have a bit to go but at least we have made a start.

It sounds like it is better than a start, it sounds like a true attempt at a mutually agreeable relationship.

Great news that she thought about you first and your possible weekend plans. Now turn it around and ask her what she needs done to help her week go easier, or what she would like to do with you this week, alone. Let her know you can find time for her, as much as she needs to find time for you to do your own thing. (don't say to her the latter part, though)

This is so nice to hear. poop, I am almost giddy thinking about your complete change in the structure of your relationship. Talking sure helps. Next time you get to So Cal I owe you a steak dinner at Lone Star.

 

[godale03]

It sounds like it is better than a start, it sounds like a true attempt at a mutually agreeable relationship.

Great news that she thought about you first and your possible weekend plans. Now turn it around and ask her what she needs done to help her week go easier, or what she would like to do with you this week, alone. Let her know you can find time for her, as much as she needs to find time for you to do your own thing. (don't say to her the latter part, though)

This is so nice to hear. poop, I am almost giddy thinking about your complete change in the structure of your relationship. Talking sure helps. Next time you get to So Cal I owe you a steak dinner at Lone Star.

poop... sign me up! LOL You know I am a realist so I take things for there face value, but you know I am a bit excited myself. In fact.. believe it or not right after she suggested I go and race I asked her if there is anything that she would like done this weekend and the response I got was very positive. That talk was really an eye opening for both of us. She needed to understand that I need some time to do my own thing every once in a while, and I needed to understand that she needed to know that my hobby would never come before her needs and the needs of my family. I think once whe got that covered, and out in the open I think things improved drastically because we now we know for sure where we both stand.

 

[Revo Rancher]

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