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It does kind of bug me that Hobbywing's recommended motors go from 24xx- to 36xx- in one step, they don't have any ESC's targeting 28xx-motors and 1/12th-1/14th scale cars.
I've driven a 4500kv 2845 with a 16BL30 on 2S, albeit in a crawler with plenty of gear reduction so the motor wasn't under particularly high load. The ESC got a bit warm, but held up.
For your application I would recommend a 10BL60, you can find them for ~$35 OEM, any cheaper isnt worth the trouble.