Well, to answer a few questions.... lol
The Durango is just done.. Never got great right ups, and really doesn't have alot of room. I had 2 Dodge work vehicles that basically fell apart after 70k, which also left a bad taste..
The Jeep Commander runs between 35k & 40k, depending on the package and dealer.
The Murano is definately a nice ride, but I'm not too crazy about the body style. Like the Infinity FX, BMW X5 & Subaru Tribeca, they just lack that true truck look.
I plan on buying a vehicle, rather than leasing. I will be trading in my 98 Chevy Tahoe. I hate to do it, but I think it's time to get into something newer. I've been having ongoing problems with the brake system (That Chevy admits was a horrible design), and I'm just starting to feel the overall truck get a bit sloppy (Steering,shifting)..
The H3, like 4U2NV said, is not what it looks like. Why they put a 5cyl in it, I have no idea... It's more like a womans truck... lol
In the past year, I've been told by at least 5 people, to stay away from Ford/Mercury. I know 2 of them very well, and have had nothing but problems with their trucks. Both have had major Transmission repairs done within the first 20k miles..
So far, for the $$, the Jeep Commander offers more room, and the look I'm after, than any other in it's class.. In the next higher price range, the Armada would have my vote.. The thing is massive, with sick power.