girl issues

[4u2nv]

I was in the same situation except her friends didnt like me because they felt I took to much of her time and they got jelous. She told me she still loved me and wanted to be with me but couldnt because of the situation we were in now (We were together a year and a half as well). We stayed good friends (didnt do it though.. bummer) and eventually that kinda faded as well. I wanted to keep in touch with her because she was the only girl that I ever had the thought of marriage (freaky), but she said it was so hard to talk to me and not be able to be together, but yet didnt want us to have the relationship..

As tough as this is gonna sound, Best thing is to just get rid of her. Its to much heartache to keep her around and still see them and keep in touch with the exp. if ya have feelings for them. I know even when I got a call out of the blue from her, Id think about her for the next couple days... Chicks man... They really can mess with a dudes head. All of a sudden every sappy song makes sense, Chick flicks dont seem so bad... shits dumb. Good luck bro.

 

[Plaidfish]

My dad beat this one into my head the first time a girl made me sad....
NEVER
NEVER
NEVER
Let female pee pee be a deciding factor to be w/ someone....
take that out of the equation...do you talk abou tother things or just suck face when you're together....do you enjoy similar activities??
do you WANT to talk to her on teh phone at nite before you go to bed or do you just want to fiddlesticks and go to sleep?.....female pee pee come and go...let it.....

 

[Monkey Wrench]

Ah great! Thanks Plaid! Ten years into a marriage and NOW I hear this? Crap! Why couldn't someone of told me this back in 1996?

 

[Jeep]

My dad beat this one into my head the first time a girl made me sad....
NEVER
NEVER
NEVER
Let female pee pee be a deciding factor to be w/ someone....
take that out of the equation...do you talk abou tother things or just suck face when you're together....do you enjoy similar activities??
do you WANT to talk to her on teh phone at nite before you go to bed or do you just want to fiddlesticks and go to sleep?.....female pee pee come and go...let it.....

Your Dad is a wise man!

 

[dannyd]

if she said she still wants to pipe but dont want to be with you and when you asked her who she was talking to and she aint remember the gender sorry to say this but she might have cheated on you and is confused. if she wont fess up leave her alone for a couple days. and see what happens.

 

[Jeep]

daakeung ,
The first thing you need to know is that a female between the ages of 13-35 is the strangest , most unprdictable, most curious creature known to man.

They are impossible to understand because of 1 simple fact: They want you to give them what they want when they want it!, But, the fallacy is that they don't even know what they want.

If she is "undecided", then change the situation and let her know it isn't "her" decision anymore.

In my opinion, send her on her way, no more sex, no more talking, be gone and be done with her.

You'll be happier and save some dignity in the process.

Jeep

 

[redneckracer1979]

I am thinking that there is more to this chick then meets the eye. She seems awfly secertive about stuff and sounds like she is hiding things. I would send her on her way if I were you.

 

[ZANDOR]

As with most female's they just>>>>>>

Can't
Understand
Normal
Thinking



GO figure!

 

[HeartBreak]

LOL, Zandors' on fire tonight!! I haven't laughed this hard in ages!

Frankly tho, dump her; You'll have more money for R/Cs'.

 

[digger]

As Sam Elliot said in Roadhouse, "Cut it the f*** loose!"
Sounds like she is playing you.
It's a partnership. Friends first, then sex. Plaid makes a lot of sense. Can't say it any better. You have been with her for a year and a half? Sounds like you are wanting something more than what she is going to give you.
Cut her loose.

 

[godale03]

Hey Dude,

The guys are right here. So I am not going to re-type. All I can offer is my experience. I have been there, hell we all have been there. It's hard, trust me I know, I had 4 year relationship end about 5 years ago, and the girl lived with me which made things worse. It was nice to be able to kick her out once I found out she was sleeping around though. LOL Seriously though, you have to walk away. Like Plaid and others said... sex is not a reason to keep a relationship together. It is to easy to get that elsewhere. She wants to be with you because she is comfortable, at least that is what I am getting from what you are saying. If she truly loved you she would be honest with you. Jeep said it, women at that age just don't know what they want, and no offense, but at your age you probably don't either. You may think you do, but you have so much more living to do. Trust me on that. I didn't know exactly who I was until I was well into my mid 20's. Sometimes I still don't know what I want. Always remember, and I know this sounds corny but when a door closes another one opens... it's true dude. You will meet someone else... hell probably many someone elses. LOL It's hard now, but my old man used to tell me you will remember this one, until the next one comes along. Take care dude and if you need anything just ask. You will get through this dude. Hey there is always getting out there and burning some nitro to get your mind off of things!

One other thing... live life for yourself.... do what you enjoy doing. The rest will fall into place on its own.

Tom

 

[SMaxxin]

I agree with the others.........Someone else is hittin it. Just ask Zandor to borrow his sock puppet until you find someone else.

 

[daakeung]

thanks guys, I know what I'm going to do. walk away, and borrow Zandor's puppet sock until someone else comes along.

 

[sweetdiesel]

I'd wash it first before putting it on.

 

[Plaidfish]

LOL.....
that is both sick AND funny at the same time.....

Daekeung,
as jeep said "You'll be happier and save some dignity in the process."
remember this..AFTER she's done w/ the games and you're stuck thinking about WTF did I do?..this is the ONLY thing you could have saved..your dignity....women make guys do some really stupid poop...and for the most part guys let them...they let female pee pee be the blinding light and follow it wherever...fiddlesticks that...stand up and be a MAN...not a boy....you KNOW what's going on....deep down you do...if you really think she's cheating on you chances are you're right....I'm cold when it come to that poop cause I don't do it to them....so I've got a lil easier time figuring out if they are cheating on me...the first time I get accuse of it, I pretty much know right then and there what's up....outside of that there are all the typical signs that you've already mentioned....you know this person better than we could from your posts....you need to look back on what's going on between you 2 and either address it or if ou honestly think she's cheating then just walk away....I dumped my ex 5 years ago for that crap and haven't spoken ANY kind words or any type of friendship w/ her...to me that is the absolute lowest thing anyone can do in a relationship.....if they do it once...they'll do it again.....

 

[godale03]

AMEN Brother!!!! Testify!!!


Couldn't have said better myself.

Tom

 

[Got Nitro?]

Did you bag the hag yet? By the way zandor,holy crap dude,keep it up i need a smile.

 

[Ryhton]

Your right there is nothing funny about beating your meat....
Unless you have a puppet on your hand HAAAAAAAA HAAAA!!!!!! LMFAO

Ok that explains all the puppets at your house, and you said they were for the dogs to play with................LOL

 

[Jeep]

Well folks, think about it, If Zandor just purchased a high-end buggy and a high-end mill for it,,,he wasn't wasting money on females..

God knows I've wasted my share on women,,and it was truely wasted, except for the experience and wisdom that I gained.

I'm somewhat more "aware" some 20 years later,,lol.
The "ocean" is large , "I swim" alot,,,lol


Jeep

 

[okihost]

It sounds like your still young and normally I would say give her what she want's but I think just giving her the beef when she wants it will just make it more emotional for you.

It's ok after you get older you will understand chicks a little more and will be able to put the emotional thing aside, we are all animals and just like to fiddlesticks.. woman are just programmed to hide it better.