girl issues

[daakeung]

hey, got some issues here. Dunno what to think about this situation, I've been together with this girl for about a year and a half and suddenly she wants to end the relationship. When I ask why, she told me how she doesn't like my friends and so on. And she feels a pressure of being in the relationship. But then after that she stil wants to sleep with me but not be with me, also says that she loves me but doesn't want to be with me, also said things that she doesn't need me and she has studies etc what is this woman up to ?
I dunno where it's gonna be heading....
what you guys think about it ?

 

[racin_38]

head games my friend ,head games
women are really good at these type of thing and they will play you
but then again she may be saying she wants to spend quality time with you and only you ,know what i mean

 

[daakeung]

tonight was another case, I called and she said she was busy on the phone helpign some classmate out and when I asked if it was a guy or a girl she said she can't remember. I'm this close to telling her f*** off

 

[racin_38]

then tell her to go get bent ,
i am sure you can find another :idea: ,or till ya do you got rosey and jill :OMG:

 

[daakeung]

thats not funny dude

 

[racin_38]

ok ,sorry i can't help
guess i have been married too long

 

[robriguez]

Well man, Best advise I can give you is to understand that this time in your lives things can be real confusing. Your transitioning into adulthood and finding yourselves. She just may not know WHAT she wants. The best thing to do is to concentrate on what YOU want and decide if this girl is worth worrying over.

When I was your age I went through similar issues with my girl at the time. We technically broke up cause she felt we were "Going in different directions" but we still hung out and slept together and acted like a couple when we hung out but were not "together". Things did not turn out well for us but it took another year for it to be comepletely over. We dragged it out and beat it to death and caused ourselves alot of undue stress and heartache and anguish that we just didnt need to go through.

So, think about what YOU want, think about whats best for YOU and try to focus on that. If she really is what you want then all you can do is to try to be understanding and ask her to eventually make up her mind to stay or go.

If that doesn't work. Tell the B**** to grow the F*** up and stop F***ing with your head. To either S*** your D*** and be happy about it or get to stepping!!! lol

 

[ZANDOR]

thats not funny dude

Your right there is nothing funny about beating your meat....






Unless you have a puppet on your hand HAAAAAAAA HAAAA!!!!!! LMFAO

 

[daakeung]

I asked her before to give me an answer if she wants to stay or go and she didn't want to give me a answer, I told her to think about it. But she hasn't told me anything.

I mean when we last did something together, during it she started to shed tears.

What could she be thinking ?

 

[robriguez]

she's just confused bro...give her time. If she doesn't come around with some serious talk about things within the week then I say YOU have to bring it up. Not during some other activity, not when other people are around, when the two of you have some time then you know you can talk about it. For good or bad just tell her to be honest. just be ready to take whatever she tells you. dont flip out.

 

[sweetdiesel]

Your right there is nothing funny about beating your meat....






Unless you have a puppet on your hand HAAAAAAAA HAAAA!!!!!! LMFAO

LMFAO now that is funny. I think I'll give myself a laugh tonight.


daakeung tell the girl to f##$ off, at this age you should trying to sample as different flavors as possible. Why eat beans when there is lobster around the corner?

Do it now before you get married, then it's chicken livers all day everyday for the rest of your life. Don't get me wrong, I love chicken livers but I had to sample a lot of dishes good and bad before I figured it out. Good luck and bon appetit!

 

[daakeung]

thanks for the advice, I think that's what I was waiting on to do. But i don't think it's gonna be anything comforting for me.

she's 20, so I woulda guess she would have figured what really is what she wants. I mean for me, it's not easy to know ur doing someone which u still feel for, but not with the person and dunno if they f***king around behind you. or thinking that u still got something with the person and they can just pick themselves up and leave. Get waht i trying to say ?

ohh yeah, one other thing I noticed. She asked me when I was gonna shedule my next mcse exam and I told her when I get paid month end, and she starts asking why my parents don't pay for it because they're my parents and i told her i don't like ask ask for money. Think money got anything to do with it ?

 

[olds97_lss]

Don't know... I'd kick her to the curb. There isn't much point in being mean and bitter about it. You were/are with her for a reason, apparently she doesn't remember what her reason for being with you is. Tell her your done. When she decides what she wants, let you know. Or don't.

Plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[RatzoRC]

Whatever her problem is, she's not telling you. I've been in your shoes my friend. Just walk away, and don't look back. If there was anything worth saving, she'll come back singing like a bird.
If she just wants sex, give it to her, and be done with it till you see her again.
Women love to be chased, and have their man go nuts trying to figure them out.
I've walked away from longer relationships than that.

 

[Lessen]

I've been together with this girl for about a year and a half and suddenly she wants to end the relationship. When I ask why, she told me how she doesn't like my friends and so on. And she feels a pressure of being in the relationship. But then after that she stil wants to sleep with me but not be with me, also says that she loves me but doesn't want to be with me

Translation: She wants to sleep with other people also, but doesn't want to feel bad about it.

I'd move on.

 

[daakeung]

thanks again for all the advice guys.
Really needed someone to talk to.

 

[nitro_freak_123]

daakeung

man! this might be a silly question to ask but do u love her? does she love u??

if so u should be able to sit down and figure everything out . without out her not b able to answer any of your questions do u know wat i mean

if u dont love her and she dont love u walk away mate dont get stressed up and worried about a girl man!



plently more fish in the sea

hope this helps

nf123

 

[Monkey Wrench]

Your right there is nothing funny about beating your meat....






Unless you have a puppet on your hand HAAAAAAAA HAAAA!!!!!! LMFAO

OMFG!!! I have been belly laughing over this for a solid twenty minutes! Christ, I'm crying I'm laughing so hard!

Man, that is funny stuff, I don't care who you are!


As for your problem, practice the 4 F's: find 'em, feel 'em, f*** 'em, forget 'em!


Jesus Zandor, that is too funny!

 

[fstbusa]

don't bother with her. get rid of her and don't drag it out any longer. It will just hurt alot more in the long run.....

 

[MonsterCowpower]

Sounds to me like she wants to use somebody as a distraction. I agree 100% with Ratzo and Lessen.