The Hakko and Xytronics stations are the standard of the industry. I have used them and, if taken care of, will last you for decades. The Weller is older tech and often not enough power - I have abandoned using mine. The great news is that there are great inexpensive choices today.
The solder -desolder station is desirable for taking apart circuits and such but prob not needed. That said, the one Wicked Fog showed is amazing. I have one. bought it to have a spare for a new electronics desk. It works great and I have been using it as my primary tool for 5+ years. use the heat gun rarely.
about 10 years ago, I got into racing and building 1/24 slot cars and you do a lot of soldering in the retro car divisions. One of the race suppliers - give credit to Rick Bennardo of RGEO products - suggested a cheap adjustable pencil to use at least for travel in my kit. the heat adjustment knob looked small and weak but I have had no trouble. link here:
https://www.amazon.com/LDK-Soldering-Adjustable-Temperature-Replacement/dp/B083L8BXRC/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=soldering+pencil&qid=1679751520&sr=8-5&th=1
I have soldered fluxed stainless wire as well as circuit and motor wires with it and have noticed no difference from my expensive stations. I put it to the test as my only iron for slot car building and racing for 6 years at home and at races and it never failed.
BUT - you need good tips. it seems all these devices have good heat elements and the control circuits work well if not abused. heat transfer IS the key. tips on cheap irons fail rapidly or don't tin properly. On all the less expensive items, order HAKKO brand tips in the size you need. above advice on width is on point. 4-6mm is what I use most. 1.5 - 2 for circuits.
So, what do I know. - 35 years of various hobbies inc RC racing, model warship combat, slot cars, oh and building my own radio gear and emergency grab and go kits for ARES as an Amateur radio operator - a lot of soldering.
Hope this helps. Have fun whatever you decide.