When I add a contact can I have your names display as they are here?? On ICQ I can have you listed as whatever I want with your real ICQ name hidden. Otherwise I'm going to get VERY confused VERY fast.
How many times does this freaking question have to be asked and answered?
Notice the AIM icon beneath the users' post. If the icon is there, they have listed a username on their profile. You can click the AIM icon and it will start up AIM for you, or you can go to their profile and see the username.
Come on guys how freaking lazy are we that this question has to be asked again and again...learn to use the search function or at least learn to click the icons that exist. WoodiE has gone to great lengths to make this forum robust in capability. There are icon/links that lead to a wealth of information all over the place...USE THEM!
If you click the "info" button while you have someone on your buddy list highlighted, you will get a page that should have a "notes" tab (this is AIM version dependent). If you then type the information (ie RCNT Member Name) into the notes field, when you point to their screen name on your buddy list...you should get a status window that includes the notes.