Wow...where to start? First of all, you need to properly bleed the shocks when you fill them. Awww, hell. Let's start from the beginning.
1. Open the shock.
2. Remove old oil/silicone.
3. Disassemble shock.
4. Clean shock with some dish soap and a bottle brush.
5. Replace any worn seals/o-rings.
6. Re-assemble shock.
7. Pull shock plunger until it is bottomed out.
8. Fill shock until about 1/8" from the top with oil/silicone of your choice.
9. Slowly move shock plunger up and down to get any air out. You should see little bubbles rising through the oil. Heating the oil first will reduce the time it takes to bleed the air out.
10. Once all bubbles have seeped out, fill shock the rest of the way.
11. With shock cap in one hand, slowly compress the shock plunger until the oil/silicone just bulges above the edge of the shock body.
12. Cap the shock. You will get oil/silicone seepage from the thread area as you tighten down the cap. You should also see the shock shaft start to push out.
13. Clean up excess oil/silicone from shock body, and tighten down shock cap until it is snug (hand tightened should be fine).
14. Test shock by compressing it all the way and letting go. The shaft should rebound about 1/4-1/2 its length (or between 1/4 and 3/4 of an inch).
15. Good rebound means good build. Place spring retainers and springs on the shocks.
16. Install them and bash away.