well ppl
i finally got my stuff this morning and i did get too talk to him via AIM night before last for about an hour
he appoligized and all that all the way thru the chat ,and honestly i believe him for what he has told me about the hardships he has been goingthru at home .
i will not go into details just forthat fact he confided in me and i am currently lending an ear so to speak when he needs 1 or advice
but none the less this young man came thru and not sure i would deal with him again but i would most certianly concider it in the future