I got a problem.Need help

[Throttle]

What you might want to do is take a look at your relationship with her. Share all your interests with her and the ones she doesn't like you need to filter them out and only share with her the ones she likes.
As for your other interests like R/C's,seek out people with the same interest and enjoy your time with and without her. You will be much more passionate about your life sharing like interests. This is one way you will figure out if you two have enough in common to make it worth being together.

My wife and I understand each other's interests but we don't always have to share them. And when you learn to do little things like this, your relationships will be much more enjoyable.

Scott.

 

[Ryan with savage]

Dude you're on a slippery slope, don't give an inch unless she does otherwise ditch her theres plenty of other women....

Unless of course she has great t i t s....in which case sell everything and make her let you play with them all weekend instead.

 

[nitroking]

Well last night i told her i made the decsion of not selling anything.She was like so you saying if i keep asking you your not even gonna sell them for me. She sadi fine and hung up on me so i guess i will see how it goes this weekend when she comes over so my sister can do her hair.And i know she is gonna be pissed caouse i am going to the LHS this weekend to pick up $150 worth of parts and sh!t..Thanks guys for you help i let yous know how it goes.

 

[Ryan with savage]

A brave decision and the right one.

Plenty of other ladies to meet dude.....you're only 15 not 50...

 

[rocknbil]

.... She was like so you saying if i keep asking you your not even gonna sell them for me.....

See? I told you! FOR ME. ME ME ME. If it's not about me IT SUCKS!

I think it's time to go on the offensive and make or break it once and for all. Ask her a few simple questions:

What is it you LIKE about me?
What AM I to you, really?
Why does it bother you that I have other interests?
Do you want someone with no character, no individuality, to follow you around and cater to your every whim?

THEN GET A DOG!

 

[Rolex]

Do you want someone with no character, no individuality, to follow you around and cater to your every whim?

THEN GET A DOG!

No, get a cat. I hate to see dogs being that badly abused.

 

[Lessen]

She sadi fine and hung up on me so i guess i will see how it goes this weekend when she comes over so my sister can do her hair.

be careful. Don't let your guard down. she WILL try to make you change your mind when she's over. You wear the pants in your life. Stick to your guns and be true to yourself.

 

[Diver6127]

if it's gonna be a clean break, do it above the knee and don't turn back. A girl will do anything these days for attention, especially the younger ones. It's scary.

Regardless, don't drop your guard, or your pants! It will always come down to ".... please, for me" no way! The only time my wife will say that is when she really wants to spend time with me, not with friends or the r/c's ... but that's different, that's my wife. She only asks me to do things like that in blue moon and it's usually something that is not a problem doing either. Ultimatums, yeah right ... better be a good reason and thus far, no ultimatums because we BOTH give up things for each other. It's not a one way street.

As I said before, that girl is just that, A GIRL! Only a child looking for attention. You just got on the highway, plemty more miles to travel before the rest area. Keep driving.

 

[Rolex]

we BOTH give up things for each other. It's not a one way street.

It's not only about giving things up for each other, but about sharing each others joys an pleasures. The R/Cs give you pleasure, and she wants you to SELL them? Why? What would she gain by MAKING you do something that would deprive you of happiness?
Relationships at that age never last long, but are only a stepping stone and a learning experience in life.
If you bow to her demands now, it will only get worse. Next you will have to give up your friends because you spend time with them and not her.
If you want to stay with her, and you like her, then by all means do so. Just let her know that selling your R/C is something you REFUSE to do, because it's something you enjoy.
If she can't understand that, it's really time to move on and find someone who will like you for what you are, and not demand that you change for her.

 

[Diver6127]

Shoot, we never give up in the sense that it's dropped completely, we alternate what's done on certain weekends. She even goes to the races with me during the summer if her schedule allows it. She enjoys it and likes it when she can share a hobby with me. She has her own r/c.

I ahve my own personal Hooter girl at the races ... woooohoooo! and I get to take her home. Sorry, just remembered what I wrote in another thread.

 

[Rolex]

Sorry Diver, I guess my quote could easily be taken out of context, but you explained it clearly. That's what I meant.
nitroking, if you had insisted the she give up something very important, or something that gave HER enjoyment, she would have told you to get lost.

 

[Skyline Racer]

My Ex G/f was a pain. Well it started out good. I liked giving her all the attention, But when school started, She started buggin' out about it being early in our lives to be serious??? I'm thinking to my self, Sweetheart... WTF Are you getting at? Are you thinking i want to marry you? Ahh.... She was a blonde, You could tell it. I made the bad mistake of going out with her in the first place, Now when i see her she trys to baby up to me again just so i can buy her a rose and go on a date to mickey d's. What a girl eh????


- The Skyline Racer.

 

[Diver6127]

It's ok Rolex, I understood it, but also realized it could be taken out of context mistakenly, so I clarified for the Youngens.

 

[Skyline Racer]

Oh so thats my our new nickname eh? Youngens... why can't it be some are mature young adults

 

[Diver6127]

Don't make me stand on a ladder and give you a beat down! LOL

 

[Skyline Racer]

Try it woman! You on a ladder trying to Give me a beat down, = Me tossing you off of that ladder. :arrr:

 

[Diver6127]

Don't make me get my wife to beat you up!

 

[Skyline Racer]

If need be, I'll take that situation, She loves me though.... Impossible for her to throw a blow!

 

[Rolex]

Okay, all you younguns, line up in alphabetical order according to height and form a circle around me in a straight line. We need to discuss this.

 

[Skyline Racer]

i'm pushin 6'3. i'm in the back...