IDK what kind of kit you have but below is a cutaway pic of a traxxas Rustler/Slash/Stampede 2WD transmission and most 2WD transmissions are pretty similar to this. The largest gear at the top is yopur input shaft which holds your spur gear and slipper clutch on the outside. The smallest gear in the middle is your idler gear and the middle sized gear at the bottom with the white plastic side on it is your differential that sits on your output shaft.
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The diffs in these types of 2wd transmissions can be gear diffs or ball diffs. Typically they are going to be gear diffs like these. Also typically these types of diffs arent sealed so you dont want to put oil in them so use grease unless you want to mod the diff to make it sealed so you can run oil. I've never done it myself but there are videos out there like
THIS one that show you how to mod it. So once you get the diff squared away with either grease or oil then put all the gears and shafts back into the transmission case and then use grease inside the transmission case itself.
As I stated above, when you use grease you dont fill the diff/transmission completely otherwise theres to much resistance and it will build heat. You fill it up enough so that it fills all the nooks and crannies and has just enough so that the diff gears are constantly picking up a little of it and spreading it around to the rest of the gears so if its filled with grease properly its not really adding much resistance to the gears inside, its just keeping it lubed.
As for what weight oil to use if you use oil? Well, this is a post from another forum that is talking about the 2WD Slash in particular but would probably be fairly applicable to any of the traxxas 2wd rigs. If you dont have a traxxas then you just have to experiment to see what works best for your kit or do a bit of googling online to see what others are running for your specific kit. Diff oil weight is really a personal preference and part of tuning your rig.
The Traxxas gear design requires a heavier fluid to be effective than other design diffs. I am running 100k on mine for a very tricky low grip outdoor track. I just started running a high bite tight indoor course and believe the diff is too thick for that course. I will be dropping to 50k or so at my next rebuild. Anything much less than 10-15k in the slash rear end is about like the grease that was in it stock!
"Heavier diff fluids will hurt the truck turn in on corner entry and overall make it push some. But they improve forward traction on a low grip surface. Under power on corner exit, heavier fluid tends to make the rear want to step out slightly as traction brakes, but it is more of a controllable drift. Lighter diff fluid will improve turn in on corner entry and allow the truck to rotate better. It does not apply power as evenly under acceleration and can allow power to go to the unloaded tire and reduce acceleration. This can result in slightly less overall forward bite. It can also allow the truck to "diff out" when turning under power. When the truck "diffs out" the weight transfers to the outside tires and unloads the inside tire. This causes the outside tire to lose power and the inside tire to spin up. This can make the truck spin out or roll over very aggressively at times. The truck rolls because the front tires gain traction as the truck loses forward bite and the outside takes more side bite as they slow down. Watch a full sized SC truck run....they cannot lift in the corner, if they do...well...same thing.
So, lots of words to say diff fluid is a preference to driving style, truck type, and track type. I like to sling my truck in and drift a bit, so heavier fluids for me. As I gain experience and improve throttle control, I am finding a need to reduce diff fluid weight so I can roll the corner more."
If you want to learn more about how diff oil weight affects your rig then check this out. In the case of a 2wd then you're only gonna have a rear diff.
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