Horrible day for my family.

[klown]

As some of you know I am a expecting father to be. Early this morning just before leaving for work, I got the most rotten news a father to be could hear. My wife had a miscarriage and gave birth to our baby daughter in the bathroom of our home. She was 5 months along. Very long and sad story short, we lost our first baby today. Heroic measures were taken by myself and all the medical professionals. Every attempt was made to help her. But she was not long for this world. Sydney Kay France, we love you and will miss you more everyday. You may be gone, but I swear you will not be forgotten.

I don't expect anything from anyone, I just needed to share this information with people I know. In hopes that it will help me with my grieving and coping process.

Thank you all for reading.
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[olds97_lss]

Oh my god, that is awful!

Our hearts go out to you and your family.

 

[lesclaypool]

So sorry to hear of your loss.

 

[slowngreen]

Very very sorry to hear that man.

 

[HPI-Killer]

Damn dude thats horrid news, and if I wasn't a father myself I wouldnt be affected as bad. I as well lost my first baby attempt as she was only 3 months along instead of 5. Dont worry man you will be a father.

R.I.P

 

[sv250]

Thats horrible. I'm a father of 2 girls and I can't imagine your pain.

 

[WoodiE]

I'm extremely sorry for your lose. My thoughts are with you and your family.

 

[HPIguy]

I'm very sorry to hear this Klown, I'll be keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[NCNitro]

I'm very sorry for your loss.

 

[godale03]

That is absolutely horrible. My heart goes out to you and your family.

 

[SMaxxin]

I'm very sorry for your family's loss, my wife an I went through two miscarriages before having our son...Don't give up!

 

[Mn Monster]

my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

 

[Zdragon71]

Klown i am so sorry for your loss my friend. I lost a child due to my first wife having an abortion against my will and it bothers me to this day. I've never felt my heart ache more than it did on that day and hope i never will again. Be strong my friend and know that your child is with god now and he will take good care of her. This is horrible and i will pray for you and your wife that you both will be able and willing to carry on and maybe one day be able to try again to have a child. I wish there was something i could say to make you feel better but i know there is nothing. Just know that your friends and family will be there when you want to talk and to help get you both through this time of tragic loss.

 

[Rolex]

This forum never ceases to amaze and impress me. The best of times and the worst of times are openly shared here. We are trusted friends and we are family to all our loyal members. May God bless us all.
My heartfelt condolences go out to you as I help carry your pain my friend.

 

[hamz9561]

My thoughts are with you clown. My wife lost ours after 4 months while I was in basic.

 

[klown]

Thank you everyone for the kind words. They mean a lot to me.

Today was a very long day for me. The wife had to stay overnight at the hospital, so I stayed with her. Up early with her, and when she went back to sleep I went to finalize arrangements, ensure plot was available, and sign a bunch of paperwork. The funeral is tomorrow. It's supposed to be a pretty day outside tomorrow here. I am sure that tomorrow will be the hardest day of my life.

I did take some me time today while I was out. The stress of the hospital was getting to me. So I stopped into the local tattoo shop and had a very healthy conversation with the owner. And after telling him why I was there and all that has happened since Monday morning, he printed off a sign and taped it to the door then locked it. Sign said "private session... Go away, come back later." I did get a small giggle out of his bluntness. But when all said and done I came home with a nice tattoo. We decided to name our baby girl Sydney Kay France. Now she has a guardian angel and always has my back.

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[Zdragon71]

Thats the most meaningful ink I've seen on anyone in a long time.

 

[Mn Monster]

Thats the most meaningful ink I've seen on anyone in a long time.

agreed!

 

[HPI-Killer]

This forum never ceases to amaze and impress me. The best of times and the worst of times are openly shared here. We are trusted friends and we are family to all our loyal members. May God bless us all.
My heartfelt condolences go out to you as I help carry your pain my friend.

X2, I could NEVER imagine the bond between an online forum can bring. I have shared thoughts and emotions here that I would NEVER show to anyone else, even some of my close friends.

 

[2revo1maxx]

Just happened to us recently, but she was only 10 weeks.
I'm sorry, and cannot imagine how you feel right now.