Hmmm...this is where I get to disagree with NCNitro. Yes, proper mesh will keep both metal and plastic gears in good shape, but running metal gears does not necessarily make the tranny the first thing to go. If you set your slipper clutch up properly, the clutch becomes the area of least resistance. Although it is true, that when a metal spur set-up gets out of mesh the damages can be pretty harsh...the key is proper maintenance and not allowing that to happen. Locktite in the proper places and good pre-bash/race checks of the engine mount and gear mesh, will minimize your chances for a catastrophic hit to your drive train.
As for metal gears weighing much more than plastic ones, this might be true of the solid metal gears, but the RRP set-up that I run is almost as light as the plastic gears I have seen. I have the double disk slipper set-up with lightened spur. It is a little heavier than plastic, but not by much (certainly not the "ton" more described above).
Either way...if you set up your rig properly and keep the mesh right, you should not burn up spur gears for a while. I've been on the same spur and clutch (both steel, both vented or lightened, and both in great condition) since I installed them nearly six months ago.