If you want to make money off of it, then you got into the wrong hobby. In all my RCs, nitro or electric, I have at least $3,000 invested. If I tried to sell all of it right now, I'd be lucky to pull in $1500.
When you replace parts, as stated above, stay away from aluminum in any spot that will flex or take impact. A-arms you can upgrade with RPM parts, anything else depends on what's available. Most RTR parts are crappy soft plastic, but new replacement parts form the same brand will be a better plastic. The manufacturer wants you to buy parts, that's how they make their money.