Picco makes a micro heli you might be interested in. Check out their site. I've had a .46 nitro heli for about 4 years now, but after the first nerve wracking day of learning to hover I got the RealFlight G2 simulator. Unless you have an endless supply of cash for parts, or don't care how bad you wreck it, you should learn on G2. The program and USB controller (6 channel flight joystick radio) runs about $230.
Helis are expensive, and require a tremendous amount of time to inspect and maintain. Just like a real one.