It can't get any worse than this

[FastEddy]

J.J said it all
Freedoms just another word for nothing left to loose, Feeling good was good enough for me.

 

[Kevrone]

Or as one man said " Never trust anything that bleeds for a week and still lives!" Good luck with you problem.

 

[mcvickj]

My uncle told me something a while back and it kind of goes the way Christian said...

Booze are bad...
Women are evil...
and if it is mechanical it will break.

Sorry to hear about the divorce. I hope you and your wife and come to a mutual agreement.

 

[El Pirata]

Originally posted by mjanwo
she can't keep you from getting you belongings,you will need a police officer to escort you but you can get your clothing..etc...the same thing happened to my brother.

Originally posted by Çh®i§tiªñ
Its simple - call 911 and tell them this woman will not give you YOUR PROPERTY back! They will take you there (actually meet you there) and get it for you.

Simple.

While it sounds easy to get your stuff back it is really not. How can he prove that he is the the owner of his stuff? I mean aside from what the general public would believe was his clothes how can he prove he's the RC freak and not his wife. While it could be ASSofUandMEd that he was the RC freak generally the police are too afraid of a lawsuit to try to put that one to the test. Get a Lawyer! While lawyers can be expensive as a rule of thumb the more they cost the better they are. You will get what you pay for. If you get a discounted lawyer you'll get a discounted pig roast. If you get a high priced lawyer you'll generally get the most for your money.

After having been through a divorce myself I must admit they can really ruin your day. One thing to remember, water is wet, sky is blue and you have air in your lungs. Material things seemed so important to me when I went through my divorce but in reality they are not that important. While possibly losing $3500 worth of your RC stuff is bad it could be worse and your ex decides to charge $15000 worth of stuff on your joint credit cards, like mine did. Call your bank and cancel your credit cards. Cancel any joint account you have with your wife or at the bare minimum get your name removed from the account.

If you have some sort of direct deposit from your paycheck to your bank get that changed immediately to another bank account in which only your name is on the account so she can't access your money. What's gone is gone and leave it at that. Now you need to think about rebuilding, not revenge. Revenge will eat you alive and take the life right out of you. If your wife was able to get a restraining order on your then it's probable that something in your past warranted the courts to allow her the restraining order. Rebuild! What's done is done.

Don't sulk and ask the, "What if's." Live for now and tomorrow. Yesterday has already happened so learn from yesterday and apply it for today and tomorrow.




I see you are in Lynnwood, I grew up there. I lived there from right after I was hatched until the time I turned 10 or 11. I went through there a few years ago while I was on leave from the Army and couldn't believe how much the place had changed. Hope everything I have said helps. Peace by thy journey!

 

[tmaxrunner]

i know where your comin from after being away for 5 years my x wife at least will talk now and i get to see my kids something i didnt get to do before. since then I've gotten remaried and got another little one and she is struggling now the same parents who helped her get rid of me dont want to be around her now so i guess it does all come around just dont let it get you down it will be the best thing that happened to you in a long time trust me just rebuild dont go back its not worth it just for some rcs and belongings cut your losess and be done with it

 

[El Pirata]

One more thing, actually two, I forgot to mention, don't try to use your kids if you have them as pawnscause you'll only hurt the kids and second don't think you can drink the problems away like I tried.