I was going to say new tires will help, then read again and see you have Trenchers, so all good there.
I like the MT look, but with all the different MT's I've own currently or in the past, I always find myself getting really tired of constantly walking over to them and roll them back on the wheels....I'm not lazy, but I am disabled and can barely stand up and walk and rollovers
always happen when my truck is farthest point away from me....but I digress
I end up figuring out a way to get my MT's in more of a Truggy stance which improves the handling in a big way. Some one already mentioned using fuel tubing for internal limiting. That's works well and same as I would do. What I like to see is the front A-arms perfectly flat across and just a tick of up angle in the rear. The thing with using the tubing to limit is that you can reassembly the shocks without oil install them and you know if your in the ballpark. Worry about final fill when you get your ride height where you want. But keep in mind that you will still want some droop, so don't over limit the shocks.
HPI fills there shocks with what they call 30 or 35 weight, but I have found that it is really watery compared to Factory Team AE shock oil. And from many years of experience I only use FT AE fluids and Green Slime for either new or rebuilds. There's no perfect weight shock oil. Everyone is different on what they like. So Id say start with 35 weight and change out as needed.
Same with springs. New springs require break in time too before they 'take a set' to coin an old 1:1 race car phrase. HPI springs are all flat rate as far as what I've experienced with them and all soften with some use. And just like oil there's no one size fits all perfect spring set up. If you make changes to the ride height, lowering its stance will also effect how the shock works as a whole.
So If it were mine, I would lower ride height and get some quality oil in the shocks. Run minimal preload spacers as needed and see what it need from there. If you find that your adding a pile of preload to keep it level and not constantly diving, then heavier springs are the next item. Then worry about the perfect weight fluid last, as it ends up being more of a final tuning option once you get the ride height and springs figured out.