geardigger, its so hard because the engines are only about .25 cubic engines, are capable of running 40,000 RPM, and run on nitro methane. If your 1:1 car was getting the same hp per cc as these nitro engines are I bet the engine would last about 5 minutes, and be a PITA to run, and cost an ass load of money. They are very touchy but once you get them right they are a blast and run great and produce amazing power for their size. Just stick with it...I know how frustrating it can be. I had a RS4 3 SS and it took me a month and half to even start the engine let alone tuning it. But once I got it and learned how to tune engines it was a blast. I since have ahd numerous engines and doing fine with them. It just takes time to learn like anything else.
When I had my Savage SS with the .25 mine also ran high and sounded like it was overheating. You may want to try and richen the LSN just a bit to keep it cooler and the idle down. Loosen the LSN 1/8th of a turn and see how that helps.