1: It is possible its gummed up, does it sit often with fuel left in the lines ? if not its most likely a tune.
2: my personal after run process is after I'm done driving for the day i empty my tank back into my filler bottle and start the truck back up till there is no more fuel left in the lines. Then i take the glow plug out and put 2 drops of 3n1 oil into the hole ontop of the piston to keep everything very nicely lubricated for the next run. WD40 is an OK lubricant but its mainly for cleaning.. so yeah if it is gummed up its good for cleaning that gunk out, but if your not gummed up its not really needed.. you want to put a quality lubricant to decrease as much friction uppon start up as possible. Most users will probably say use after run oil specifically for nitro engines but really your just paying extra for something thats no better than 3n1 oil that you can get at your local hardware or auto supply store.
3: Youll be able to tell the glow plug is out if you see a crack in the coil in the center of it. Usually when it cracks you can see the coil almost turns a burnt white and thats another sign your plug is not good and needs to be changed. I can't seem to find a picture of a cracked coil but its very noticeable when you look into the glow plug and see that the coil has a separation.
As far as noticing its bad while in the engine you can really hear the difference between an engine about to start with the glow plug connected and not... and when your glow plug wire or igniter is on and charged and it just sounds like its turning over its bad... Or it will just constantly flood and be really hard to crank over.
The glow plug functions where when its first having power pushed into it by the wire or igniter, its glowing hot enough to ignite the fuel and every time there is a new air/fuel mixture coming in the previous fire keeps the glow plug hot enough to ignite it again. and it repeats that process until you pinch the fuel line or plug the exhaust. [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jdOTa_PJUvU"]Squirrel TV 1: Water Proof Wraith, Glow Plugs Work, 22, and MORE RC HELP. - YouTube[/ame] this should help, you can skip to about 3:00 and youll get an idea how it works. he explains it muchh much better than i do.
Good luck !!